A Nigerian entrepreneur, Adewale Adejana, have a stern advise for Telemudo, zeeworld watchers and fantasy believing enthusiasts, that love is not about good sex but an action word.
Adewale Adejana who is a successful 34 years old entrepreneur is also known for the adoration he showers his beautiful wife. He often take time to his social media platform, Instagram, to share some inspirational messages, particularly on how to treat your wife/woman right. But his recent post came with a punch line and a very realistic one too. Read the post below.
“This is for all you telemundo and Zee world fans who believe in a certain kind of love. Love is not the butterflies in your belly, it’s not when he looks in your eyes and sings “Assurance” to you. Love is not good sex, love is not money. Love is an ACTION WORD!
Love is making up your mind to be with someone through their imperfections. Love is a sacrificial word; some women are loving the wrong men perfectly and that love is not being reciprocated and it is eating at your self esteem because he doesn’t love you back.
Tuface sang “it feels good loving somebody who loves you back” loving someone who doesn’t love you is one of the most painful things ever.
Love is a DECISION! If you are loving someone who is wrong for you please walk away, you may cry and your heart may be heavy but you must love yourself before you can truly love others. You can’t give what you don’t have!
You cannot love a man or a woman’s weaknesses away. Don’t think marriage will make love stronger. If it was never there, marriage will not make it work!
Don’t love with your heart alone, involve your brain because if you don’t, pain is waiting! If you ask many divorced people if they loved their partner they would tell you “yes BUT…” Your heart belongs to you, make sure you give it to the right person.
If you are heartbroken right now, take this tissue of common sense and wipe your tears. Make up your mind to do better next time and if you are in a loveless marriage, LOVE YOURSELF! It will heal you.
You too can be a social media evangelist. Please share so that others can be blessed as you have been blessed.”
The SapphireScents boss was also on Instagram yesterday where he shared a video where he was seen curtseying his wife by opening the car door for her, with a caption advising men to honor and treat the woman who was there for them when there was no money right. The self-acclaimed social media evangelist is using this medium to tell his 81.8k followers the honor there is in loving and treating your woman right, a relationship digest I would say.
See the video from yesterday’s post.
https://www.instagram.com/p/BpJekkpg56T/?utm_source=ig_share_sheet&igshid=flju1t83oq6r
Living in a world where most intimate relationships are equate to good sex and social media lifestyle, here is a man who think differently.
